Mental Health: Decide Whether You Really Need to Get Divorced or to Change

It is freedom, yet it keeps you away from discovering who you truly are. Once met with the demon, it can frighten you to do things that you’ve never thought of doing, yet it can inspire you to create, to live, to design a life that you had never thought possible.

It can bring you to a hole so deep that you never, ever think you’ll climb out of it. Yet once out of this hole, it can drive you to places where only some people will experience. It affects all of us so differently. And while it may depend on our roots, some of it may depend on circumstances, luck, bad decisions, good decisions and who we meet along the way.

Divorce, for some, is exactly what they need to reinvent themselves, and for others it’s a life sentence of unknowns. Although, divorce may seem final for some, it is the start of a great love affair for others. Is divorce the answer that you are seeking, or is the answer you are seeking, far from a divorce?

Divorce doesn’t have to end in a divorce. It can be the start of a new relationship. Before you decide to make it final, figure out if a divorce is what is needed for a change or is it just a change you need before you decide to make it final.